We have lived on Christianshavn in a small 42 m² apartment for the past 16 years. It isn’t much space, but it is ours, and it has allowed us to live affordably in one of Copenhagen’s most attractive, and increasingly expensive, neighbourhoods.
Over the years, we have supplemented city life with a small house in the countryside, complete with a studio and a garden, where we spend weekends and holidays. It gives us the best of both worlds, a compact everyday life in the city and room to breathe in the countryside.
Today, a journalist and a photographer came to visit because Anne wrote an article about living in less space in the city. At one point, our family of four, and our dog, all shared this little apartment. It wasn’t always easy, but it taught us a great deal about cooperation, tolerance, and making the most of what we have.
In a city where there needs to be room for everyone, perhaps getting used to living with a little less space isn’t such a bad idea.
Read Anne’s article here.
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Sharing Space
Anne Romme
Associate Professor at the Royal Danish Academy
These days, there are many thoughtful contributions arguing that if we are serious about sustainability in the built environment, we must learn to live in fewer square metres. As many have pointed out, technological solutions to our overconsumption are not enough. We have become better at insulating our homes and reducing energy use, but what does that achieve if we simply keep building more space that needs to be heated? In the end, the result is the same. Looking at the figures for residential floor area per person in Denmark—53.6 m² (2023)—it seems we may be building and occupying far more space than we actually need.
Living with less is, in fact, not particularly difficult. It simply requires a willingness to consume less, to give things up, and to be content with less. It requires sacrifice. Sacrifice is not something our generations have been especially accustomed to. But the freedom that comes with it should be a powerful source of motivation.
Here is one example of how it can be done. Since 2010—that is, for the past fourteen years—I have lived with my family in approximately 42.5 m² (according to the Danish Building Register). Until 2022, our household consisted of four people and a dog; since then, three people and a dog. That amounts to roughly 10–15 m² per person.
At first, it genuinely felt like a sacrifice. I am an architect and teach at the Royal Danish Academy. I compared myself to colleagues living in large, beautiful old apartments with elegant furniture and enough space for a simple, minimalist interior. Before moving into the small apartment, we lived on a houseboat. That felt cooler somehow, and the apartment seemed like a compromise. Surely something better would come along. But it never really did. Gradually, we grew into the apartment and learned how to live in it.
We discovered that we had to share not only the space, but also the hours of the day. The two of us each have time when we more or less have the shared living area to ourselves: the morning for the early bird, the evening for the night owl. Simple enough.
Over the years, our children have probably dreamed of having bedrooms of their own, like most of their friends. But at the same time, they have thrived living close together. There is a sense of comfort and security in it. Conflicts are dealt with immediately, because there simply isn’t room for resentment to linger in separate corners.
Tiny houses have become a global phenomenon, inspiring clever and sustainable designs. But living in fewer square metres does not necessarily require building something new or making a major investment. In our case, we ended up creating a tiny home within an entirely ordinary housing cooperative apartment in Copenhagen.
A small apartment gets messy very quickly—anyone who has lived in one knows this. Things pile up. Our home is a long way from the beautiful, minimalist Japanese tiny houses I admired as a young architect. But whenever it all feels too cramped, too cluttered or too dirty, we remind ourselves how many resources this way of living frees up—resources we can instead devote to our projects and to spending time with our children. We also have a summer house, where we can enjoy more space during weekends and holidays.
Today, I am proud to talk about the way we live. I am glad to practise what I preach and to set an example of one way to live more sustainably. I am not perfect. Had we been given the opportunity, we probably would have moved into a larger apartment. Like most families, we try to do our best without getting everything right. But I do know this: if everyone were willing to embrace living with radically less space in the city, many of the problems our cities face today would be significantly reduced.
In the apartment photo, you can see our dining table, which also serves as a work table, the kitchen, and the shower cabin. On Christianshavn, there is never far to a great place for a swim. Drawings by Anne Romme.
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